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I am so glad you are forgiving and looking for a new start. Not forgiving eventually takes us down a path of ill health and further sullies our character as only things counterintuitive to our health can come out of anger and bitterness. Why spoil our future?! Wish you much luck on your new journey with your best friend, your wonderful writing!👍🏼

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Thank you, Anu! Also, I love how you frame my writing as "my best friend."

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You are most welcome. Writing comes from within and our Self, so always an authentic and a loyal friend:)

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Plans? Plans get in the way of joy, serendipity, and adventure.

Avoid them at all costs.

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Delighted to be here at the start of this next chapter in your journey.

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Thank you, Michael!

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Apr 23Liked by Nolan Yuma

Go with the flow is also our favourite way of travelling. We always book the first hotel in advance and all the rest depending on circumstances. The advantage id you never have to rush to your next booking. Just walking around in an unknown city to inhale the atmosphere and sometimes sniffing good kitchen brings you to surprising destinations. So yes you are on the right way.

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Time to follow my nose!

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May 3Liked by Nolan Yuma

This one is giving my brain too much food for thought lol.

thanks Nol!

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I'm excited to follow your journey through travel therapy. Don't forget to turn towards west Europe on your way back, wave wave! It's a beautiful area too, only maybe more expensive. :) I'm a fellow planster too. I leave lots of rooms for serendipity. I seek them!

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I wonder if this "planster" lifestyle comes naturally (or forcefully) to people like us who are part of various cultures. And yes, I'll turn towards Western Europe on my way back!

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I never thought bout that. Or is it people like us tend to seek out even more cultures? Via travels and migrations and just plain living in foreign places ...

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That’s definitely the case for many of us.

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To the start of (another) journey! I'm a planner with my writing, but a planster with travel. Life, unlike the plots of novels I'm asking people to buy, should be messy.

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Hey, I’m from Vancouver and have many of the same problems you do. Maybe we’re a certain type…a type that moves, that gets stomped by the CRA, that has relationships blow up spectacularly…

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Hopefully we can move forward with a community of ‘our type.’ In difficult times, it feels good when people relate.

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I call us “goers”. We’re the people who leave. I’m trying to learn how to stay, at least for a time. Freaking hard.

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I get that. Whenever I try and stay, something happens that makes me float between two places so I’m never truly grounded.

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We even have the same governments dismantling our lives. What a world.

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